Thursday, July 26, 2012

Chick-Fil-A--What do I think?


                I am not one to tread water, nor am I one to jump in the pool without viewing the water to see what the weather is.  I try to think before I speak, so here is my thought to answer the people that want to know.  There are 10 different issues with Boston’s “decree” about Chick-Fil-A.  I base them off of legal ideas and past precedencies.
                First of all, the mayor of Boston is an elected official.  He has a term.  If people are in an uproar about that decision then do not elect him again.  However, this works as a double sword because the mayor’s decision is finite, and the next mayor could very well allow the branch to operate since the office of mayor decided to ban the restaurant off of his own authority.
                Second issue is that the same psychological proof about the ‘same sex’ gene is the same proof used to say that a person could be born with criminal behavior.  There are still many debates about whether this is a nature or nurture mind set.  If a person were a Christian, then they could argue that psychology has proven that no man is perfect, and we are all born with a sin nature.  However, there is more to consider.  If people view sexual orientation as they do a race, then it is a well known fact that Chick-Fil-A does not hire/fire based on sexual orientation but on the work merit of the prospective employee.  The chain does not have signs hanging that states it hates gays.  Even further, the chain does not refuse to serve people based on sexual orientation.  In fact, the chain chooses to serve people based on their want to eat their food and the green that lines their pockets.  The only thing that the chain has done is say that it will not back same sex marriage nor will it support the cause because the entity does not agree with the matter.  Unfortunately, for Boston, this would mean that Boston is discriminating against an entity based on its beliefs which, in America, every person, entity, and organization can freely choose its religion, belief system, and so on. 
                A third thing to consider is that same sex marriage is considered a moral issue.  If a person argues that sexual orientation is not a choice, then consider this.  Why are more people against a chain that disagrees with same are sex marriage, yet there are many white country clubs that are able to pick and choose whether they want to even serve or include black members?  Can a person hide whether they are black, white, Asian, Hispanic, etc?  Why are KKK meetings still allowed in various communities?  If the world is going to attack Chick-Fil-A, then they need to start with the KKK members, country clubs that are exclusive only allowing specific races in, attack the elite societies formed to only admit people of a certain race, and crush the Neo-Nazi movement!!!  Since we are so bold America attack those organizations too.  Once again, I am not taking a side, but I am pointing out the plywood in the country’s eye.  Eliminate the glass ceilings in various communities that encourage racism.  It happens in different communities of different races.  Depending on where you are, there is a place in America that discriminates whatever race you are…  There are places that black people are afraid to go, and there are places where white people are afraid to go.  There are communities where Asians, Jews, or Hispanics are discriminated against and the list goes on.  Since we are so bold to attack Chick-Fil-A for its beliefs, then let’s attack something that affects everyone.  Take a stand against that.
Fourth statement: is it right for a city that claims freedom to impede upon the freedom of another organization simply because of its ideology.  The company is not spreading hate, nor is it advocating violence.  It merely states that it is against same sex marriage. 
Then there are more questions to pose…   Would the city of Boston do the same for a KKK clan rally or business meeting?  What is Boston doing about hockey and specific comments made/tweeted?  This means that Boston must take the lead in the fight against racism, and all inequality.  You made yourself the pinnacle supposedly, so now you need to take the lead if you are that concerned.
I have served in the military and worked side by side with people I did not always agree with, but I would fight with or for them in a heartbeat.  Wouldn't Boston prove to be the "bigger" person by allowing the restaurant there?
Boston and others are making Chick-Fil-A a martyr.  Because so many argue about same sex marriage being a moral decision, this boycott may end up increasing customers in other areas that are opposed to same sex marriage, they are also giving free advertisement.  Any speak is good when it comes to business if you have the right PR (Public Relations) manager.
Another thought is that this is being made into a bigger issue.  If no one gave wind to it, then none would even know of the lack of support for same sex marriages.  For a Christian, persecution is not wanted, but it is taught that we should find joy in persecution.  Congratulations, you have just awarded and made Chick-Fil-A a hero Mr. Mayor in Boston.  I am not taking sides, but my point is that if the Christian hero died to save humanity, and all other Christians want to be just like Him.  In fact, they consider it a reward to face persecution, then you are making the organization stronger.  One Pharisee was wise in his words in a biblical story.  “If God agreed with them, then no one can stop them, and they would just grow stronger, but if God was against them, then they would not last.”  Sometimes, simplying say I disagree and moving on is the best action.
Now, you have created unlikely allies that may give profit and money just because they want their idea to be supported.  Now, there is a corporate face and a person's face.  You have just given teeth to those that oppose same sex marriage.  One of the things that caused people to stand out in many situations is when a face or entity was given to the cause.  You have taken away the faceless Christian that has been scorned for disagreeing with same sex marriage and gave it a face.
The most important thought is that this company may become a flagship.  If it is wanted, an entire community may be able to start war (paper, propagandas, and slogans).  This means that you just threw a match in a can of gasoline that had lots of air supply.  Ever play chess or study history.  This is how prohibition started, this is the current argument about legalizing drugs, and the list goes on.  Once something is boycotted, banned, or cut away.  It allows it to get a different type of support.
 -->If someone really wanted to hurt Chick-Fil-A, then that person would do this, "I am disgusted by Chick-Fil-A response to same sex marriage.  However, the city of Boston is not like that, so we will make every person that supports same sex marriage to rally and sit inside the store to show that we are the bigger people.  We will occupy but not buy anything." It would diffuse the situation and could cause Chick-Fil-A to quietly lose customers simply from the unrest.   It is called peaceful protest, and it worked before, so why not now?  I will not say what my opinion is for this article was meant as a neutral piece.  I do ask a question though.  Why is it that our country can fight so hard over an issue of sexual orientation, but it still struggles with eradicating prejudices, biases, and racism?  What is there to gain by publicizing a disagreement that Chick-Fil-A had with same sex marriage?  No one would have cared if it was not mentioned.  Now Chick-Fil-A is both famous and infamous depending on where you stand?  I will not take a side, but I would ask that if this is a country of free speech, then why ban Chick-Fil-A for stating a disagreement?  I would argue that if the country can accept the Muslims after 9/11, if they can allow others to hate different races freely, if Christians must accept the opinions of others as allowed, then why can the country not just let Chick-Fil-A have their own opinion.  This article is meant to be neutral and not to offend either, but it is a query into what many have asked my opinion on.  I refuse to give a personal opinion on this particular issue, for I have bigger fish to fry, and I firmly believe that this is a pothole that meant to distract from the real issues going on.  For example, what about jobs in America and our economy?  Who are we going to elect for president?  What is the state of our country’s national defense with so much going on in the world?  There are much bigger issues and battles than this.  What about racism?